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The Art of Listening



Great women listen.
They have nothing to prove.
They know who they are.
Of course, this applies to men as well. 
Listening implies not rushing time. 
A good listener weighs carefully the response, without directing the conversation back to the self.
It is about understanding and respecting the need of the other, allowing the energy to remain there until the subject changes naturally.
A listener is a good partner in conversation, keeping the flow where it needs to be from moment to moment.
The art of listening has to do with honoring the speaker. It is generous, true, and authentic. It quiets the ego and helps deepen the association, the friendship, the romance.
As beauty is said to be in the eye of the beholder, we can also say that one becomes beautiful understanding that the “You” is more important than the “I.”

For the Lioness Gazette
http://www.lionesswomansclub.com/post/1039

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