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…with pen in hand.



Pen and paper… the tools of lovers, poets, writers, or anyone valuing the delicacy, seduction, and power inherent in language and expression.

Gone are the days when touching pen to paper united sender to receiver, with every letter, a stamp of palpable emotion. With each symbol formed, a reflection of the sender’s soul was imprinted, allowing the receiver to feel all the closer for it.

No longer do we feel the character and emotion of the writer through the shape of a word.  Today we text, we email, missing the blemish of a fallen tear, a sinuously formed sentence, or the fury of an irregular slant. In a world where it is easy to misinterpret the message without the assistance of script laden with intangible, yet felt emotion, we need to work all the harder to express our hearts.

When writing with pen in hand, there is a sense of limitless time. We luxuriate in the formation of a thought, scribbling it down furiously or painstakingly applying each letter to create the sentence that corresponds. When we write a handwritten note or letter, we are saying that we value this time where we can sit and make tangible our thoughts in a way that is commensurate with the value of the receiver.

Perhaps the best gift you can give a friend or a lover is the gift of a classically designed fountain pen. In doing so you say you value a deeper kind of communication, and that you have faith that he or she is up to the task. By honoring someone with this confidence, you are saying the friendship and love you share speaks of its own eternity.


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